Is this the best thing ever?
Making a list and checking it off. Simple right? Well you would like to think it is however a recent study found that over 80% of lists remain incomplete.
That is a lot of things to do that is not done.
Maybe it is time to check your New Year resolutions list and see where you are at and get ticking off your to do list.
I’m just checking mine, first on the list – a nice cup of tea, ah can’t get better than that…
January can be a tough month in the northern hemisphere. It is dark, can be cold, as it is as I write and wet which it has been considerably over the last few weeks.
We also challenge ourselves, perhaps a little too harshly, with commitments to resolutions that maybe are a bit too much of a stretch to achieve.So we give up on them, blame ourselves and dwell on the gloominess of January.
Now I can do nothing about the weather but I can make realistic changes about how I feel about it. Nothing is forever even January and Winter will pass, bringing Spring and brighter days and weather.
Every sorrow has a new beginning, every day a dawn beyond the darkness. Hope is always in abundance as we focus on being mindful of the little things that reminds us we are alive. We may not all have the power to change the lives of many but we all the power of One to change something in ourselves.
Be the light in your life that brings life to light.
I would just like to share my book review I wrote for my association. It’s good to share.
Mindfulness and Hypnosis –The Power of Suggestion to Transform Experience
Author: Michael D. Yapko, PhD Published by: W.W.Norton&Company Ltd. In 2011
Dr Yapko has written an intriguing account where he endeavours to bridge the gap between guided mindfulness meditation (GMM) and clinical hypnosis. Suggesting that despite the difference of backgrounds, they are essentially two halves of the same walnut drawing on shared experiential and suggestion-based approaches with focussed attention paramount to both GMM and hypnosis.
However whereas GMM has found considerable support and recognition in health and mental wellbeing settings (perhaps due to both its original Buddhist roots and clinical research highlighting its effectiveness); clinical hypnosis struggles to attain a similar standing as it still suffers from both the historic and modern sham practitioners and populist misconceptions of stage and entertainment shows.
Nonetheless, Yapko goes to considerable length to dissect and analyse GMM transcripts to highlight the hypnosis content, such as direct and indirect suggestions. Although his comparative account may be somewhat reductionist to the meditation process implying it is a form of hypnosis and perhaps misses the spiritual point and unique values of meditation to the individual.
Despite this Yapko makes a valid point that the label is not what is important, it is the process and outcome that counts. Therefore, through his well-structured composition, drawing on both scientific evidence and clinical judgement, Yapko provides the reader an opportunity to utilise different strategies to engage with clients and broaden both clinician and client resources towards greater attunement.
On a personal note, I found the book interesting, as I required some information about GMM to help me deliver mindfulness sessions in CUH Temple Street. I wanted to deliver these sessions with a hypnotic content and this book certainly helped justify my approach to the sessions highlighting the common ground hypnosis and GMM share. It also provided me with a plethora of excellent reference sources, which have been useful in expanding my knowledge of GMM and in the delivery of the hypnotic mindfulness sessions.
I would certainly recommend this book as an invaluable addition to any therapist’s library or indeed to anyone with an interest in GMM / Hypnosis.
At a mindfulness session recently the instructor asked us before we open our eyes to rub our hands to warm them then put them over our eyes. It was interesting ,try it you might like it…
It is a very wet day here today but as I was very kindly reminded-
The sun always shines above the clouds
Now I just have to figure a way to get there , by physical or mental plane…
A walk in the park made glorious by a thing of beauty
Be mindful – a small space can make a big difference
It can take YOU from :